Writing exposes us and makes us vulnerable. Our knee-jerk response is oftentimes to pull back and stuff the impulse. But when we see start to see how doing much in life makes us vulnerable, and when we see others doing vulnerable things, it can provide a gateway to allow us to, as Susan Jeffers wrote about way, way back in the 80s, feel the fear and do it anyway.
It takes a certain mindset—this word, “Svergonata.”
Fear kept me from starting this channel in earnest for way too long. I hope that after you watch, you’ll join me in doing things that make you vulnerable, like writing your novel. And that you’ll embrace the svergonata mindset.
Putting ourselves out there, sharing our stories, isn’t always easy. But I’m convinced that stories can heal the world, so let’s embrace the svergonata mindset and do it together. (There’s safety in numbers.)
I believe in energetic reciprocity. When you subscribe to my email list and/or my YouTube channel, we’re doing something more than simply exchanging currencies—your email address for my content.
We’re collectively growing a community of mindful, evolving people who embrace the reality that stories can heal the world.
October will soon come to a close and November will be upon us. That means it’s time to prepare for NaNoWriMo—National Novel Writing Month.
This will be my first year taking the challenge. Instead of officially registering for the event on the NaNoWriMo website, I and my writing group are doing the challenge to get our in-progress novels completed by the end of November. (I’m about one-third of the way in on mine…)
Having intention is one thing, but we need to do more if we want to see success with a challenge of this magnitude. Planning is essential, and it paves the way for successful implementation.
So first, let’s look at the goal itself.
The NaNoWriMo challenge assumes approximately 50K words total. That equates to 1667 words per day (5 double-spaced pages / Times New Roman 12 pt font) or 69 words per hour.
Having these numbers in mind will help you begin to break down the task into manageable pieces.
Now, here are some tips to help you do that.
Plan—Take care of any business or obligations in your life that can be completed before November.
If you celebrate Thanksgiving and it’s traditionally your job to shop and cook, make your shopping list before November 1. When the day comes, enlist people to help you. (Do it!) And if you absolutely must miss writing on this day, decide where you’ll double up on another day—in advance—to stay on track.
If you have other special days to celebrate—an anniversary, a birthday—again, get your shopping done before November 1. If you need to mail packages, get them wrapped and ready before November 1. Mark the trip to your package delivery service on your calendar.
Create a Plan B. No matter how much we plan, people and situations beyond our control can interfere. If you have a solid Plan B in place for the days that go awry, they won’t throw a giant wrench in the works and will only derail you for a short time.
Schedule—Block out the times you’ll write on your calendar. (I’m a geek for calendars, so this is one of my favorite parts of preparing for projects.)
Determine which calendar works best for you: digital or analog. (I use a combination of both.)
Reserve blocks of writing time in your calendar. If you use digital, color code those blocks time with a color ONLY used for writing. If you use analog, use a highlighter to accentuate the blocks of time you’ve designated for writing.
Shift Your Mindset—Rather than think of the challenge as daunting, make it fun. Starting with a defeatist mindset from the get-go (or at all) will be a giant deterrent to successful completion.
Write down mantras. (“Writing is fun.” “This draft is only for me.” “Perfection is not necessary.” “My writing comes first.”) Or make up your own. Repeat them to yourself every time your mind drifts into defeatist territory.
Write a letter to the voices in your head. Let them know they are not welcome, at least, and especially, not for the month of November.
Commit—Treat your commitment to NaNoWriMo as you would a commitment to someone you care about very much. Make it a priority. Privilege it (at least in your thinking) above all else. Just for a month…
Clean and prepare your workspace. This will send a message to your brain that this is important, that you mean business, that it matters to you.
Enlist the help of family and friends. Tell the people in your life what you’ll be doing. Tell them how much it means to you. Ask for their help in the form of respecting the times you’ve set aside to write.
For more detailed and hands-on help, check out the first four COMPLIMENTARY modules of my Conjuring Clarity course, created to help you accomplish these first four steps.
Know your people—Make a list of your protagonist(s), antagonist(s), and supporting characters.
What traits and characteristics define who they are as people? Think big. Think small.
Know your people’s backstories—Knowing your characters’ histories will inform why they want what they want and why, as well as what obstacles they will face, both internal and external.
Where are they from? Where are they now?
What has happened to them in the past (especially their deepest wounds).
Know your milieu—Make detailed notes about your story world. Do research beforehand, as needed.
Where does your story take place? What are the characteristics of this place?
When does your story take place?
Do any special rules apply to your story world (as in fantasy, sci fi, or magical realism)?
Determine your opening scene and inciting incident—Having a clear starting place will go far to start you off with a smooth beginning.
What is your opening scene? How will you set the stage and engage the reader? What does the status quo life of your protagonist look like when the story begins?
What (inciting) incident or event will turn your protagonist’s world on its axis and set them on their journey?
Create an outline—While it’s true that we gain insight about characters and what they want and why as we write, having some kind of framework to focus on will help you keep moving forward with a tight deadline like this.
What is your protagonist’s deepest desire and why? (Hint: This is oftentimes connected with their wound from the past.)
Given your protagonist’s personality, how will they attempt to realize their desire?
Given what your antagonist wants, how will he/she/it interfere with your protagonist’s progress?
What’s your ending? This can be hard to know sometimes, but make a guess for now, then set up a series of events and/or key scenes that you know will be relevant to the storyline.
Relax, trust, and let go—Surrendering to the process, letting go of any preconceived ideas about the finished product will give you the creative space to see you through to November 30.
Think of this draft as an abstract painting. Put down what comes to you without feeling the need to edit as you write. (You can do that in December.) Use big, broad brushstrokes. Use tiny, finite brushstrokes.
Be willing to both stick to your outline and shift your course when new, surprising ideas show up. This is the give and take of the creative process.
Want to go even deeper with Steps 5-8? Check out the second four modules of the Conjuring Clarity course.
Want to go even deeper with Steps 5-8? Check out the second four modules of the Conjuring Clarity course.
Want to go even deeper with knowing your people by experiencing the magic of the Writing Through the Body™ method?
